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Michiel Kerbert

Edward thought ... it can’t be … it’s not healthy … ❌


Edward's Stories # 13


The last two days

 

Sarah’s words Kept popping up in Edward’s mind

 

His co-workers checking his mood

 

Before they start their day …

 

It can’t be

 

It’s not healthy.

 

 

So …

 

Edward started to pay attention

 

Checked if his co-workers

 

Observed him – and his mood.

 

Oh yes …

 

Sarah was right

 

Edward recognized he had no idea.


Not only of these dynamics …


But also not

 

Of his co-workers being so dependent

 

On his mood … on his being.

 

 

Edward invited Sarah


For another walk … after lunch this time.

 

The day had started off greyish


While walking in the park

 

The clouds became white


The sun appeared


And elevated Edward’s mood.

 

 

Sarah, Edward said,

 

Imagine how the sun – as well

 

Is teaching me a lesson …


Both of you.

 

 

I realize now

 

If we don’t take charge

 

Of our emotions

 

We’re swept along by circumstances

 

Like the wind.

 

If we don’t take charge


Of our greyish thoughts …


We’ll – consequently –

 

Not have as good a day as we could.

 

 

Sarah, I realize now …

 

I do not know enough

 

About our team

 

What makes each one ‘tick’

 

Why do they work with us


What are their expectations

 

What do they want to realize

 

???

 

Knowing their WHYs will help me


Understand their mood dependence


Lead better and create

 

Stronger connections with the team.

 

 

The sun started to shine

 

Even brighter

 

When Edward told Sarah

 

In the next team meeting

 

He talks about his personal WHY

 

What makes him ‘tick’.

 

 

Edward realizes

 

He needs to be the example first

 

Then invite his co-workers

 

To think about their WHY.


Sharing this with Sarah …


He sees her eyes shine.

 

Thank you, thank you Sarah

 

For opening my eyes

 

I see better now …


Understand more and better.

 

 

Can you imagine EdwardSarah said

 

How the team dynamics change

 

When everyone realizes


It makes sense to work together

 

The WHYs being aligned.

 

Edward looked up …


The sky was beautiful


All grey gone


He could look further now.

 

 

He imagined he could see


The Theatre of his Mind

 

In the sky.


Edward felt energized

 

Looking forward

 

To visualize the upcoming team meeting.

 


P.S. Do you – really - know why your co-workers work with you?



P.S. Do you – really - know why your co-workers work with you?



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